Dating: Torture or the Time of Your Life?

"Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."


--Albert Einstein



Do you equate the above quote with dating? If you do, it’s no wonder that you are hesitant to step out into the dating world. If this is you, try the following tips to change your experience. Just one of them, if sincerely practiced, can turn your dating life around.

1. Reject Rejection – Make the following your mantra when tempted to conclude that either you or someone else is being rejected.

There is no such thing as rejection, only the wrong fit.

--from Love Will Find You by Kathryn Alice



2. Release your Agenda – Resist the temptation to cry soulmate or to push for what you want, whether it’s sex or commitment, in the early stages of dating.



3. Change your Focus – If it seems everyone around you is dating, getting married, or having babies, accept this as evidence that you get yours too. Even having several dating experiences that did not work out is evidence that you are open to love. Remember this is dating, if you had met your soulmate you wouldn’t be dating anymore.



4. Honor Yourself—If you’ve had a tendency to give too much away and have found yourself in a pattern of relationships that are out of balance, hold back a bit until you see genuine interest on the part of the other person.



5. You Get Love – Remind yourself that you get love. If this one is particularly difficult for you to accept, I suggest that you buy Love Will Find You, Kathryn Alice’s book. Pay particular attention to the first two chapters until you build a greater acceptance of this idea within yourself. You may also want to purchase her Manifesting Love CD. It contains two meditations for putting out your soul call for your One. If you appreciate all of the free support that I offer in love, please use the link below. I earn a small commission on the sale.



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